What
makes someone drive down a rugged mountain road, never having done so before,
yet compelled to. Only then, to discover someone who has been trapped for days,
under a vehicle. The mother, who is exhausted of her daily duties, puts her
children for a nap and is about to join them. Yet she feels drawn into the kitchen,
to discover their home is on fire and manages to escape, with those most
precious to her.
A
single person, on their way home to the grocery store near them, is prompted to
drive across several lanes of traffic; to stop in at another chain store for
some unknown reason. She encounters a weary stranger, whose husband has just
been released from hospital, after having surgery for a pacemaker.
After discovering the couple have been waiting for a taxi, over an hour…she offers to provide
a ride home. The vehicle she drives, belongs to her landlord, who is away.
This
woman, who does not have any transportation of her own, is about to embark on a
journey. One, where her intuition of listening to her heart, will soon reap eight
months of unexpected adventures, blessings and life lessons.
While
the first two are examples of intuition, the last one is my own personal
experience of what happens, when the spirit leads.
I encountered Dela and her husband Robert, in unplanned circumstances.
When as strangers we met, no one could foresee
the ripple effect.
After
explaining the vehicle I was driving was not mine, I shared I did not own any transportation.
Upon
dropping off the thankful couple, I saw the street sign had the
word ‘angel,’ in it.
Dela
gave me their home number and asked me to call her once I made it back home, as the roads were icy. I had already experienced some harrowing moments on the
highway, after leaving the airport, where my landlord was flying to balmy
Florida.
I
thought it was sweet of the lady to make such a request.
Once
safely back at my residence, I called and we spoke. Dela thanked me again
for my kindness. She let me know, we would speak again.
A
week or so later, I did receive a call. It was from the church I was attending.
The secretary shared, how a lady named Dela, had called for my number as it had
not been saved on her phone. Previously, I shared with several people from
church, about my chance meeting, with the couple.
Dela had paid attention
to me sharing about being a Christian and attending service in the area, where I
lived. This would be the first indication this situation was being orchestrated by a
higher power.
When we spoke again, Dela suggested we meet for coffee at Tim Horton’s.
More
time passed and as we sat together in a booth, sipping coffee’s, I was not prepared
for what her purpose was in our meeting.
Dela
spoke of her Toyota Echo vehicle and how since I did not have anything to
drive, would I be interested in carsharing?
I had a dumb founded look upon my face, yet Dela stated her offer
was serious and legitimate.
I
could not wrap my thoughts around what she was suggesting.
“What
do you mean car share?” I asked perplexed.
Dela
went on to explain how she has shared her car in the past, with another person.
She
would ensure everything was done properly through ICBC and I could use her car
on a trial basis. Besides the enormous blessing, Dela would cover the cost
of insurance, help with gas and maintain any repairs.
Now,
I will admit I expected some hidden cameras to be capturing such a scene, as my
mouth couldn’t say a yes or no.
Dela
could sense my reluctance and reassured me, she was simply wanting to help someone
in need, who had shown compassion to two strangers.
Once
the disbelief wore off, I realized her offer was genuine.
In
accepting her generosity, my life was set onto a different direction.
When
I sat behind the wheel of her car, I recall asking if the car had a name?
I
am fond of naming my vehicles and some of them have been cheeky.
Dela
said the car was named Shelby.
My
time with Shelby saw me embark on many of a venture, which Dela gladly encouraged.
Had I been to Francis/King Regional Park or checked out the circular walking
paths behind many of the older, local churches, she asked.
The opportunities
afforded to me now, were endless. I went on picnics, overlooking the vast blue
waters, surrounding our area. I hiked alongside mountain alpine flowers. Shelby
took me to Island Regional Park. There I watched the cool darkness, become fragmented,
by earth’s light in a sunrise.
"To live the life you love, you must do what you love. And you can't choose what you love, you can only discover it." ~ Barbara Sher
On an extended road trip, I drove to the
outskirts of Duncan, to the Ocean Falls Reunion of the Rain People. I reunited
with the three sisters, who are part of the wonderful inspiration for my novel, Under the Sitka Tree. I was able to have
the vehicle, as a means of free advertising, for my novel. The endless streams
of people who have checked out what UTST is about, has come from them seeing
the magnets on the back of Shelby.
Having
a reliable and gas efficient car, allowed me to stay for a weekend at the Hi-Point Guest
Ranch (Bed and Breakfast).
At
ȽÁU,
WELṈEW̱/
John Dean Provincial Park, I trekked along the dirt paths to Pickles Bluff and
sat on a boulder, while a swarm of dragonflies kept me company.
For entertainment,
Shelby was my ‘limo’ to see Corey Hart and Glass Tiger in concert. I was treated
to another weekend of celebrating cultural roots, with those who were part of,
the Indigenous Festival.
When
my aunt passed away from cancer, I was able to go to Florence lake and play one
of her favourite songs, on my playlist. As I stretched out on the pier, my
thoughts reflected on the short timeline of life.
There have been many trips to
Goldstream Provincial Park, including sharing in a traditional meal, with a
wonderful Australian family. My eyes saw waterfalls, while my ears heard the
songbirds, along the seaside. Some places became a favourite, like Swan Lake Sanctuary,
Rithet’s Bog and the splendour of The Horticulture Centre of the Pacific.
Another
place I enjoyed going to, was the Sidney Market, on Thursday nights. I had driven
out to the area one night and sat in awe of the kaleidoscope of fireworks, over
the ocean. The company who joined me, had stories and a smile that welcomed you
in. As we watched the sky erupt in flares of colour, I crossed off another thing
on my list…Watch fireworks with a stranger.
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On
a different night, the lure of handmade pottery and carved wood, drew me into a
booth. After a few conversations and an invite to visit a breathtaking log home in Lake
Cowichan, I would find myself involved with the wood carver. I soon forgot the
purpose of the original meeting – to have something created out of wood. Shelby
carried me through the windy roads where cedar, fir and birch greeted me, with their
natural beauty. In my many trips along the way, I knew in my heart that what I
was pursuing, was not the path God wanted me on. Later, at the end of the relationship, I was given a gift
from the wood carver. It held the purpose of meeting him and was linked to another individual, with a connection to the past.
A
key role in my work as a caregiver, saw Shelby transport the elderly couple I
looked after. In taking them to various appointments, I am deeply grateful for
the means to transfer them safely in a car. Had I never been driving; it would
not allow me to help them in such a way. I was also able to pick up supplies
needed and arrive to work in a timely fashion. With all the transit strikes and
routes cancelled daily, I have been blessed to know that a trustworthy means
of transportation, was afforded to me.
Dela’s
generosity went beyond the car and into the abundance of crocheted items she
has donated to me. Known as The Railway Knitter, she has given me bags full of
her handiwork, to give to those in need on the streets of Victoria.
I
recall a time she invited me into her home. Dela proudly shared with a daughter’s
love for her father, the ribbons of fabric, attached with knitted flowers. Each
one she created, represented a birthday year of her dad. This beautifully
structured art, was made with such warmth and adoration.
Dela Wilkins, Tunisian Expert of The
Crochet Crowd, is an accomplished author of two Tunisian publications.
Also known as the Railway Knitter, she occasionally teaches on VIA Rail across
Canada as part of the on-board entertainment program. Tunisian is a journey of
creativity she’s happy to share. To get on board the Tunisian crochet train you
need… Basic knowledge of Tunisian crochet: simple stitch, forward pass and
return pass. Dela’s booklet Railway Knitting provides information on the basic
stitches. Source. Shannon (Creative Festival)
Last
month, when I was at Ogden Point watching a glorious sunset slip over the
horizon, I was approached by a young man named Jaz.
He
came up beside me and mentioned the stunning scenery that was before us. While
we did engage in conversation, it was the time of quietude between us that I revelled in.
For it was about sharing in the tranquil moment that mattered. Standing together,
I thought of another thing being crossed off my list…Watch a marvelous sunset,
with a stranger.
Later in conversation, Jaz
mentioned to me a unique tree swing that overlooked Shawnigan Lake. Had I ever
seen it? I thought about what a tree swing meant to my late daughter Shayla and
how one of her favourite songs was “Swing Life Away,” by Rise Against. I shook
my head indicating I had never been there.
Jaz assured me that one day soon, I
would.
Two
weeks later, I was on another adventure.
I
met Jaz at Goldstream Provincial Park. I had to leave Shelby behind, as she
was not meant to drive over the Malahat, without winter tires. Jaz drove us
along to the start of the trail and parked. One look at the incline and I was in
doubt of my abilities to take part in the climb. What I did not know was the
beginning of the path, was nowhere near indicative of what lay head. As rocks, roots, and moss-covered boulders were in abundance, what transpired on the
way up, had me thanking God I was in safe, capable hands.
For every step along the
way, Jaz patiently waited for me. Never once did he complain of my many stops,
to catch my breathe. When we approached the crags and deep roots, he went
before me and kindly offered me his hand. If a step needed navigating,
Jaz jumped ahead to ensure it was safe. Being the size I am, I know at some
parts, it was not easy and yet…still I heard no objections from him.
Upon
reaching our destination, I was overwhelmed. To see the tree swing in person,
was something that even now has me tear up.
There was a plaque I read:
“The
swing was built for his future wife, on a very special mountaintop. Swing 2.0 was
built to last a lifetime of adventures! He wrote, Thanks for loving it, as much
as I love her!”
After
a push off the rocks, I let my legs gain some air and soon I was swinging.
Jaz
mentioned how it was too bad I could not see the view, yet for me it did not matter, as it had been more about the climb.
I took out a photograph of my daughter and myself, which Shayla had given me for Mother’s Day that read: “I Love You to the Moon and
Back.”
As I held a picture of Shayla and I, Jaz took a snapshot of me on the swing.
I had also brought with me, something to leave behind. A golden, painted heart with a key inserted
in the back, with the words I would tell my daughter: “You are my sunshine.”
This was gifted to me a long time ago and now I felt it was perfect for its release, under the tree swing.
In
all of this, I began to feel the tears coming.
Jaz
asked me if I needed a few minutes by myself and I shook my head no.
As
we went to descend the mountain, Jaz took me down an easier way; a nice
slope that surely would have been easier to climb.
I
asked why we did not go that way up?
He
smiled and replied, “It would not have been the same.”
Nearing
his truck, something made me realize the profound truth of what this all meant.
In
the nearly six years of living on the Island, Jaz was the only man who never
took anything from me. He had no expectations and was in the true sense, a
gentleman.
While these times shared were memorable, this was not the beginning of anything romantic. For I believe Jaz came into my life, as a reminder of goodness and that I can trust what my instincts are.
I continue to pray for Jaz to find the happiest he deserves. I am thankful for his kindness; to a mother missing her only child.
Driving
back to Shelby, I smiled as I thought of crossing off my list:
Climb a mountainside with a 'stranger', to sway on a tree swing.
The
time came on November 15th, to pass over the keys to Dela for her
Shelby. I was privileged to having driven the Toyota Echo and the memories made.
Both
Dela and I have an understanding that the car was an extension of so much more.
I have found a cherished friend, who offers guidance, support and encouragement.
I am fortunate, for all that has come, from the use of her vehicle.
There
is also a peace in knowing, I did heed my inner guidance.
When one cold, winter night, two strangers needed me... I believe our
Creator knew, I needed them just as much.
With a warrior's
spirit I continue to strive, to seek and even falter. In being open to
listening to my heart and complete strangers, I disperse the seeds of kindness to
others and in return, I receive.
While in my serving...I grow.
by TL Alton
